YOUR SELF ESTEEM AND YOUR WARDROBE

YOUR SELF ESTEEM AND YOUR WARDROBE

Walk into any fast food restaurant around you or perhaps pay the cinema a visit. You are sure to find the following set of people; Guy and Girl sitting and talking. Most times it always seems like the guy is trying to convince her to believe something. She smiles at intervals and then maintains composure. I call these set of people the LOVERS. Asides the LOVERS we have those that come all the way down from their houses to these public places to charge their phones. I'd call em the PACIFIERS because they're so obedient and try to please err one around. The waiters or security most times are good at ordering these ones around knowing fully well that they wouldn't protest or argue since they are only charging their devices and paying no dime. But out of all the categories of people you find in these public places, there's a category of interest and it's the STEAMERS. I call these ones the steamers because they feel so HOT, sexy, appealing, and full of themselves(for that moment though) If you find a Steamer perhaps in a restaurant, tea shop, cinema, most of the time you find em sitting all by themselves,fiddling with their phones basically not doing anything of importance on it or answering a fake phone call. Now the question is this; why should you leave the comfort of your home, fully dressed in a Gucci shirt, Levi's pants, Fendi handbag, kylie jenner eyeshadow to a restaurant to just sit and do nothing but fiddle with your phone and talk to no one

. Not like you are just there to chill, deep down you want someone to talk to. Here's the answer; these set of people most times have esteem issues.
Self Esteem issue is an issue which 7 out of ten people you walk past on the road suffer from. People who suffer from low self esteem love to be appreciated, admired. So in a bid to achieve these wants, they resort to wanting to be overly dressed....so perhaps if you don't appreciate or admire them you can in turn admire what they wearing.
But this is where the story gets its twist, no matter how expensive what you wear or how good looking it seems, your self esteem brings out the touch of elegance which you need. Your Self esteem is like your camera flash light and your clothes the lense. No matter how clear your lense gets, you can never take a picture in the night and expect it to be bright without a good flashlight (high self esteem).
I wont really blame the STEAMERS because when they get fully dressed and sit in that chair, that's the only time they feel people can admire em. That's their little moment of fame in their little comfort zone.
"Your self esteem goes hand in hand with your wardrobe" most people would say. I don't argue the fact cos to a large extent its true but do you let that decide your confidence? I have a friend that doesn't like meeting friends or new people on days when he's not wearing a designer clothing or accessory. But you need to see him rock his Versace Shirt and the amount of noise he makes while we walk.
TIPS TO HELP YOUR ESTEEM

▶Take water and Swallow a chill pill cos being YOU is paramount in all this: Realising that there's no other human as special as you does the trick. You Laugh too loud; its your thing, its unique and there's someone who loves it. You are too Slim they tell you..but damn! Who cares when im in love with that body. Learn to walk tall, there are 7billion people in the world, stop struggling to be someone else. Someone else sucks trust me. YOU Is better

▶Learn to Look Good: how do you leave the house without consciousness that you look good and expect to feel good too? Its easy to look good
→be neat
→be neat again
→keep your clothing's in order
You don't need a designers trouser or handbag to look good. You need a good esteem and a neat dress to look Good

▶STAY WITH FRIENDS THAT BUILD YOU
you see most times we surround ourselves with people who don't build us or make us strive to be better. So perhaps before now you've been wearing a pair of worn out pants and your friends are like "omo!!! Freshest nigga!!!!" or they could be like "slay mama! !!" And this makes you so comfortable not knowing you are only a single eyed man in the midst of the blind. Sometimes too you could find yourself in the midst of people who don't appreciate you.This has a way of dampening your morale and in the long run your esteem can be affected as well.