Skip to main content

HOW MEN BECAME SCUM


All men were born equal but some came with a tag SCUM- Anonymous

Can we agree that everything in existence was made? If we agree with the antecedent statement, then it wouldn't be wrong to say that every personality trait was cultivated. There was a fertilization, a gestation and then a birthing. In fact there was a day one. So before the volume of this "Men are scum" music gets louder, take a moment to study how this music came about. Just maybe your dance steps might change.
Photo by: Adedeji Edun https://dribbble.com/shots/6656864-Men-Are-Scum?utm_source=Clipboard_Shot&utm_campaign=Adedeji&utm_content=Men%20Are%20Scum&utm_medium=Social_Share

Ever noticed some of our dad's find it difficult to say "I love you"? (Mostly In this part of the world) This might not seem anything related to why men are scum or rather thought to be scum. But in my opinion it has everything to do with it. Men are taught from a tender age to MAN UP!, don't be a CHICKEN,don't you know you are a MAN, and many other statements which teaches his subconscious mind to numb emotions. He grows to lack the basic skills (words,actions) of communicating his emotions in a society which expects him to be a MAN and not a CHICKEN. Many of them have been molested, assaulted by either relatives,maids,or even neighbors but he remains mute and MANS up!

The Man often times is left to find out the world for himself and by himself. Did anyone ever sit him down to enlighten him about his hormonal changes? Or what it meant to have a Wet dream? I guess a lot of us (parents included) in the society got very busy with the girl child. Teaching her how to be virtuous, carry her head high and what type of deodorant she needed for her body which underwent puberty. Are you still wondering what went wrong when he took to an "unhealthy" lifestyle of masturbation? In a bid to satisfy the throbbing nerves which no one cared to explain it's cause and how to manage the scary experience of waking up with a painful bulgy abomination under his pants in the name of an EARLY MORNING ERECTION. And in his innate human ability to search for answers, he found answers in a pornographic site which left his sexual appetite burning till he became possesed enough to RAPE the girl you spent all the time on.


Did you also forget you taught the girl "hustle like a man so that you won't have to depend on one" and the boy was busy with toys and video games which gave him a false image of success when ever he scored 5:0 against the COM. Never realizing the real world wasn't designed like a PLAYSTATION but rather you could be innocent yet locked up in a POLICE STATION (pun intended) Now he's all grown and very intimidated when he comes across a very successful female and automatically sees her as a competition.

 Dear girl, ever thought to yourself "why is he never satisfied?" Could this be another masculine Superhero ability to be a Scumbag?No. He just wasn't taught to keep his Toy Helicopter so he could have more. He enjoyed the favor of numerous toys. His toys never lasted beyond one month. It was called "Childish lifestyle" then, but now it's called " Casanova lifestyle" he's never satisfied with ONE. But the girl is 25 now and her Barbie doll Still remains but with a silly tangle on the hair ( cos she was trying to nuture it)


The man was designed to win. Little wonder his gross passion for football. He wants to be in charge always but he wasnt taught Moderation. Was he ever pulled away and disciplined the first time he ever raised a hand on the sister? Or any girl? Now he even chokes his wife while having sex, uses curse words on her, binds her with cords,and orders her to "SAY MY NAME" and  this which is the perfect Scum is excused with "that's his sexual fetish yen yen yen".

MEN ARE NOT SCUM!

Dear MOMs build the boy into a Man you wished you dated as a girl.


I chose to say this cos 9Eleven cares❤️❤️❤️

Labels:

Comments

  1. UnknownJune 22, 2020 12:41 pm

    Wow....
    As much as this piece hurts and kinda difficult to accept.
    It's the simple truth.
    Most parents focus all their attention in the training of female children and paying little or no attention to the little errors in the life of the male children.

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

You'd Also Like This

5 REASONS WHY I DONT WANT TO GET MARRIED

 5 REASONS WHY I DONT WANT TO GET     MARRIED(THE ALTER EGO ISSSUE)    A couple of weeks back I was on my way to Metropolitan Supermarket where I went to get some hair products for my hair. I alighted from the Tricycle popularly know as #KEKE in this part of the world and was about to pay the driver when a feminine voice interposed; "il take care of it". I turned around to find my friend Ruth (real name withheld) standing beside me. To cut the long story short, I learnt that she was going through some crises in her marriage. She couldn't help but show her sadness in form of tears that rolled down her cheeks while she talked. And I was compelled to write something about Marriage.    I questioned more than a couple of people to give me reasons why they wanted to get married. But surprisingly enough some of them never wanted to get married and with legit reasons. Most of their reasons all boiled down to what I'll call the #ALTER_EGO issue. Now before ...
11 comments
Read more

"ACRIMONY" the Movie Controversy

   Have you ever asked for a die-hard movie lover and I didn't present myself to you? Well im so much a sucker for movies but about a few weeks ago, I was sucked up in thought after I was done watching the highly controversial movie ACRIMONY. And it dawned on me more like a self realisation that in as much as I can cry when I watch a sober movie, I can equally get very upset.  After much thought I decided to do a review of this movie based on my personal judgement and a few others. Just before I begin to add my own "versy" to the already existing controversy, Here is a a brief synopsis of the movie plot 'ACRIMONY' for the benefit of those who have not seen it yet. As the clearly aggrieved Melinda relates her story to the shrink, the story flashes back to the early days of her relationship with Robert (Antonio Madison, playing the younger version of the character), whom she meets when they're both in college. The young Melinda (Aijona Alexus, who seems...
4 comments
Read more

Pick-Up line or FuckedUp line

Okay, today I decided to take a brake from fashion and how we wear what we wear. Reason being that, im beginning to realise that most of us even after appearing appealing to the eyes; fine, overly dressed and with a lot of charisma Actually do not know how to talk. And by talking I meaning having right Pick-up lines or Chyking(like my Nigeria brothers would call it). Cos frankly I think most of you wouldn't have been born if the only line Daddy used was "You are the Sugar in my tea" which tea please? ? #thinking. Let me pause a Sec to explain why I think so: Did you know just about yesterday, out of the 7billion people in the world, in a corner of Uyo Nigeria there was a certain guy who told a girl "Baby im not staring at your boobs, im only using my eyes to find a way into your heart" Prior before now I felt like those lame pick up lines only existed in comedy movies or vocals of Okon Lagos aka Bishop (our Nigerian kevin Hart) but yesterday got me thi...
2 comments
Read more

Why We Fall In Love With The Wrong People

There happens to be a lot of uncertainty resulting into questions when it comes to this Falling in love thing. Its either a case of: "Falling in Love is beautiful but what if I'm falling into the wrong hands?" Or "Sometimes the person you fall for isn't ready to catch you." Some other times its: "Bottom line,we never fall for the person we are supposed to".    Now this brings me to the point of interest. Have you ever Wondered why we often fall in Love with the people who don't Love us back? Chase people who don't want us?  I could still recall way back in highschool, I use to have this beautiful seat mate(my young eyes really admired) who really was so into me but I never treated the feeling with any much respect, perhaps cos I was the one being chased? or maybe I wasn't just cutout for any of those childhood dramas. But one amazing thing was 'she never stopped'. This is same case with many of us(men/women). Many...
1 comment
Read more

CROCS AND HOW TO WEAR EM!!

CROCS OR NAH! Okay, today I was sitting with my friend and the sister came along. She wanted to go get food and since we were just a bit free at the time we decided to tag along on her request. While we walked down my friend kept saying Hi to almost err one, so there was a repetitive momentary stop we always had to observe to wait for her. While I waited for her with the sister I couldn't help but notice the CROCS she had on. I really don't do well with compliments though but I had I to tell her how nice they looked. Because she wore em neatly and correctly.   Now im not a croc fan, to be earnest enough I dislike them and I even dislike them the more the way some people get to wear them. Now the multi coloured rubber clogs which made way into the light in the year 2002 has been overly abused and in  #LASISI_ELENU'S voice il say "im so upset right now!". How can you wear a shirt buttoned to the neck, wear a coperate pant neatly ironed and shirt neatly tucked i...
Post a Comment
Read more

RoadsideOpinions: One Minute Man

" Says he can go for hours but pops before the toaster does"- Kermit the frog It is no more news that a lot of things are wrong in my country. Ranging from the religious crisis to misappropriation of funds and lack of  intercourse between the three tiers of the government to conceive effective synergy. Which do I talk about and leave the other? Is it the People who frown like they own the vehicle when they order Uber,Opay etc or the ones that look at you like your brain is a vacuum when you try to flag down the Keke (stop that  nonsense)they Ordered from Opay. Well that's not where the problem lies. The major problem my country faces is these people who Keep polluting the peace with a lot of noise about "doing your work Kakaraka as a man" You don't know them? Herbal drugs oooo.  Here's  from me to the ONE MINUTE MAN. You hear things like : " You no go fit do your work as a man" "Every time your wife touch you,you go say you dey ...
2 comments
Read more

LAYERING (SHIRT ON SHIRT)

            LAYERING(SHIRT ON SHIRT) We decided to come through with something for err one, as long as you're male or female then this is for you. But if u not any of those then....... Before I proceed il like to take the time to sincerely apologise for leaving my readers with nothing to read and catch up on. Good thing is im back for better and im back for you ♥.     Now take a close look at this picture and tell me what you noticed. I know the traffic would be very congested with the number of people who noticed a green light first. Some others might notice the individuals Resin glasses, but that's not it. You never noticed he was wearing a SHIRT ON A SHIRT. YES! That's not a jacket.    You know the shirt on shirt is a style which is quite delicate, meaning that with just a slight error everything gets messy and not nice to behold. There's a thin line between looking cool and looking stuffed up in this kinda style. Wearing a s...
Post a Comment
Read more

THE CONFESSION STORIES: She Made Me Do IT

 CONFESSION: SHE MADE ME DO IT "I promise to tell the truth, only the truth, and nothing but the Truth" There's a first time to everything right? Maybe my first time was behind time or perhaps it was at the right time but the first time I was touched by a girl, female, woman, lady,which ever you want to call it was too intriguing that I can barely forget.  Maybe you know my name but for people who don't, thank God. Just describe me as (W) and for privacy sake which matters in this situation, this lady would be described as (W). Confusing yeah? Read on! I'm sure when it comes to sexually oriented contents or that have a bit of  erotism, you hardly get confused even if I said "Men are swords" (now you're trying to read a dirty meaning into that, *Laughs* means nothing any ways)    I was in Junior Secondary School at the time. Smart,Quiet and  Naive would be the adjectives that best described me. Plus I was very antagonistic towards girls and m...
8 comments
Read more

YOUR SELF ESTEEM AND YOUR WARDROBE

YOUR SELF ESTEEM AND YOUR WARDROBE Walk into any fast food restaurant around you or perhaps pay the cinema a visit. You are sure to find the following set of people; Guy and Girl sitting and talking. Most times it always seems like the guy is trying to convince her to believe something. She smiles at intervals and then maintains composure. I call these set of people the LOVERS. Asides the LOVERS we have those that come all the way down from their houses to these public places to charge their phones.  I'd call em the PACIFIERS because they're so obedient and try to please err one around. The waiters or security most times are good at ordering these ones around knowing fully well that they wouldn't protest or argue since they are only charging their devices and paying no dime. But out of all the categories of people you find in these public places, there's a category of interest and it's the STEAMERS. I call these ones the steamers because they feel so HOT, sexy, a...
2 comments
Read more